Marriage on the rocks?

Hi, I happened to go a strip club only once before marriage, to see what it is. I stayed for an hour, had a drink and left, did not do anything. After marriage, on our way to our honeymoon, my wife asked me if I have ever been to a strip club. I said yes, once and I did not like it and will never go. She could not take it and she has made her and my life miserable over that issue since the last 9 months. I apologised, tried to make up for it, tried to keep her happy, etc etc etc. She does not just seem to get over it, and insults me every other day calling me a cheap, characterless person. Both her and my close friends know about it and everyone is in my support. She does not seem to listen to anyone. She is at her parents' place now. Because of so many quarrels, feuds over the same issue for 9 months, it has taken a toll on , my health and peace. Have lost weight and am not able to concentrate on my job also. She does not seem to understand or change. Her friends say she loves me and she will take time. I am considering a divorce now. Please tell me what shud I do?????? Please help me...